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Sunday, July 20, 2014

Hello everyone - lots to catch up on!

Well the Tasmania trip is now just a memory, except that once I get my new computer sorted properly I can finish the blog posts about it.  I'd love it if you visited http://SandraFromSydney.blogspot.com.au and left a comment on some of the posts.  There've been some comments via emails but virtually nothing on the blog :( so I'm not sure what exactly people enjoy or what not to blog about when we travel.

After returning from Tasmania we had a few days in Sydney: enough time to visit my mother, have a problem with the water supply to the caravan fixed and pack for Grey Nomads Camp on the north coast of New South Wales.  We had a wonderful time there and enjoyed seeing three other couples with whom we camp each year.  One of them was the couple that travelled around Tassie with us.

Happy News
We had only been home from that a couple of days when I came down with a nasty tummy bug but the following week we had two new additions to our family in the form of 6-month old kittens who we called Max and Chloe.  They were the second litter to the ginger male and female cats next door and despite it not being good timing I just couldn't resist these two.
 Aren't they gorgeous?  Max is the ginger and Chloe is the tortoiseshell.  At first they were both very shy because they had been outside all the time and only handled a little bit when they were fed.  They were hardly socialized at all.  We are keeping them inside until they are used to us and we have them desexed, microchipped and vaccinated so the surroundings are totally strange to them.  They spent all their time hiding on the dining chairs behind the tablecloth.  But I made a point of patting them when I fed them and after two days Max became quite sociable and this became his favourite perch.  Chloe still wouldn't have any voluntary contact when these photos were taken.

Spoil my cats?  Me?  Never!  They just rule the house, that's all :)  We persevered and after a few weeks Chloe started to watch Max on our knee, as though wondering whether she was missing out.  She began rubbing up against our legs and asking to be petted, especially around the face and under the chin.  Finally about a week ago (ie after 5 weeks) she started tentatively putting one leg on our lap.  And eventually she became really game and now sits on our laps too.  In fact sometimes we have both of them on our lap at once and they wonder why they run out of room ;)

Sad News
In that week after getting over the tummy bug I was able to visit my mother a couple of times and promised to come back again on the Friday.  It was distressing to see how much she had deteriorated in the time we had been away.  But on the Friday I came down with a very sore throat so was banned again.  It quickly turned into bronchitis.  On Sunday 22nd June a week and a half later I was still quite ill with a very bad cough when we had a phone call from the Nursing Home to say that they were worried about Mum's condition.  I was getting ready to go when we had another call to say that she had passed away.

So the next week was very busy with funeral arrangements and preparation, clearing out Mum's room at the Nursing Home, designing and making the Order of Service booklets and the Guest Books, and all the things that have to be done.  My family and friends were wonderful and so helpful and supportive.  I still feel quite numb and detached from everyday happenings, and find it hard to be motivated to do anything.

Trying to do 'normal' things
I ran out of funeral-related things to do then I had had the computer tech fellow here to show me how to move my laptop info from Windows 7 to Windows 8 (grrrrr!) , and during the school holidays we had two of our grandsons here for a couple of days the first week then our oldest granddaughter here for a few days the second week.  We bought her a sewing machine and I taught her how to use it.  She chose a pattern for a tote bag and one for a dress, and fabrics for both and I showed her how to follow the pattern and sew them.  She was so excited and proud of her efforts and we were proud of her too.  I'd post the photos I took of the end results but they are on my phone and it has the sulks after Peter drove over it with the car - twice.  Ooops.

Then I was trying to get my studio more organized, thinking that it would keep me busy.  When I am stressed that's my way of coping - just keep busy.  However I found that I couldn't concentrate on what to do, couldn't decide where to put things, couldn't think.  So I dug out some miniatures and started on those.  I am not getting the same pleasure from doing them that I normally do, but they are keeping me busy and that's the main thing at the moment.  They demand that I keep my mind on them as well as keeping my hands busy and that helps.

I have put off doing the painting on the studio until the weather warms up again.  We have had temperatures down to -2 here in the mornings and the days at the moment are quite cool.  July is our coldest month and we are having a fair bit of wind which brings the chill factor into play.  Last winter I nearly froze doing the main painting on the studio and I don't want to do that again.  After having had the bronchitis I have felt cold all the time unless I am in bed and the cough just doesn't want to go so I'm not going to work out in the wind.  But hopefully I will soon have some mini progress to show you.

10 comments:

  1. Welcome back dear friend, I have really missed your posts. So sorry to hear of your mum, a lovely photo of her and such a friendly smile. On a happier note, your Max and Chloe are adorable. I was looking back through all your quarter scale posts just yesterday as I've just ordered some items to make.
    I'll send you an email in a couple of days.
    Blessings,
    Vicki.

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    1. Hi Vicki, how lovely to hear from you! Thanks for your welcome back :) and for your sympathy re Mum. Yes, Chloe and Max are gorgeous and even though it wasn't a good time to tie ourselves down with pets because we want to continue travelling, they have been a real blessing with Mum's passing - they are such a comfort. So pleased to hear that you are doing some minis again! Do tell me what you are doing.
      Blessings
      Sandie

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  2. Hi Sandie. Your blog site is like a mansion with many corridors and rooms. Will probably never find and visit them all!
    First, what a lovely picture of your mum: she looks like a wonderful woman and you will have many happy memories of her.
    I love your cats. When I see cats cuddling up happily together my heart melts. When I was breeding Abyssinians back in NZ I loved just watching them interact. One mother and daughter got on best when they both had kittens, though ,Crissie (Criseyde) rather took advantage of her mother's good nature and after a couple of weeks would leave the bulk of the kittencare, including suckling, to Aphra.
    On one occasion they gave birth almost simultaneously and insisted on sharing the same bed. Fortunately for their pedigrees, the kittens were distinguishable. Not sure the kitties were as positive as I was about who was mum, though.
    Your GB mansion will be magnificent when finished. I can't aspire to anything grander than Le Petit Palais, which I'm currently budgeting for but then I doubt I'd have the energy to complete the mansionbecause of the limitations imposed by FM.
    TC
    Janet nz/uk

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    1. Hi Janet, thanks so much for your lovely comment about Mum. Yes, I have many happy memories of her and so do our three children and our older grandchildren. I miss her so very much. The cats are a bright spot in my life at the moment, with their love and antics. I really enjoyed reading about your cats and Crissie's lazy mothering :) I will post some photos today of the GB mansion - at least the first room. At least with it coming at just one room a month it isn't so overwhelming!
      Blessings,
      Sandie

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  3. My condolences for your loss.
    The new members of your family are adorable. I like their names.

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    1. Thank you Fabiola. And I'm glad you like our furbabies too. They bring a lot of happiness and comfort at the moment.

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  4. This is my first time to comment on your blog, although I've been enjoying it for months. I wanted to offer my sympathy with losing your mum, mine just passed away six weeks ago, and it's a difficult thing to go through. Your mum looks like a lovely person, and it sounds like you will really miss her, as well as having many happy memories! I'm finding that absent-mindedness is my ongoing symptom of grief, the other emotions seem to wax and wane, but losing my purse and not remembering conversations seems to be a constant! Keeping busy with creative and productive activities really helps, and it sounds like you are doing the same! Staying connected to the people you love really helps too.
    On a happier note, your kitties are so sweet! We had a tortoiseshell (we call them calico cats in the States) named Chloe, and also had a ginger tom named Marmalade so your two really caught my eye! There is nothing like a little kitty love to really warm your heart! Sending you best wishes from California♥

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    1. Hello Kate, how nice that you have left a comment. We both lost our mothers not far apart, and it certainly is a difficult thing to go through even though we knew it was coming. I miss mine dreadfully despite being glad for her that she isn't suffering any more. It is interesting that absent-mindedness is your ongoing symptom of grief. At the moment I am still going through the feeling detached from everything stage though I have periods of weepiness.
      Our kitties came along at just the right time for me though I didn't know it at the time. Chloe is the fourth tortoiseshell cat that I've had - my first cat was one, and Max is the third ginger. Their parents are both ginger. They are right now running riot through the house, in their morning play time. They are so gorgeous and bring a lot of comfort and love. Two of our children have left home and have their own families and it is a 3 1/2 hour drive to visit them so the kittens are really spoiled - but then all my cats are.

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  5. Hi Sandra! I am so grieved for you. It must be hard for you to have not been there at your mum's passing. I am truly sorry to hear this, but love keeps our departed ones alive in our hearts and minds. I hope that you have fully recovered from your bronchitis, and I hope that your sadness will not overload you and keep you down.
    I am thinking of you at this time
    Many Blessings

    elizabeth

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    1. Thank you Elizabeth, it was hard not to be there at the time, and I am feeling really bad that I wasn't. I am concentrating on trying to keep the good memories alive. It's not an easy time at the moment but it's something that we all have to go through sooner or later and I've been blessed to have my mother as long as I have. Hugs
      Sandie

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